If you keep circling the same “Should I…?” — quit, stay, break up, move, start, stop —
cāive helps you cut the noise, see the situation straight and decide next steps.
No moral lectures. No therapy-speak. No “optimize your whole life.”
cāive is for people that need to hear things others don’t want to say or help you with.
Work 1:1 with cāive
A session is simple: observe → decode → decide → lock it in.
You bring the mess. We turn it into something you can act on.
Here’s what we lean on:
Decision weight — what deserves decision and what less attention.
Self-honesty — what you actually want, fear and tolerate.
Loop awareness — what your mind does to avoid the decision.
Small anchors — what you’ll do this week so you don’t slide back.
Staying regulated — so you can hold the truth long enough to move.