Products
For people who prefer to work alone. Guides, toolkits, and books built for real life loops – the kind you keep returning to even after “understanding it.”
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Sincerity, Seen Simply
How to Drop the Mask, Stop People-Pleasing & Live as Your True Self
If you keep saying “it’s fine” while your body says it isn’t — this is for you.
This book helps you catch the quiet lies, stop performing, and take small honest steps that actually change your day.
No guilt trips. No hype. Just calm clarity and real examples.
You’ll learn why sweet stories stick (comfort, belonging, ego), how people-pleasing keeps you stuck, and how to come back to yourself without turning life into a self-improvement project.
- Best for: people-pleasing, self-denial, “not that bad” living, validation chasing, avoidance loops.
- Main tool: a daily 5-minute check (Spot → Strip → Step) to bring you back to what’s real.
- Each chapter includes: Shift Point (tiny action), Sincerity Step (one clear move), Reflection Stop (prompts).
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Coming next
I’m building a small library of self-guided tools. Not “change your whole life” programs – practical materials you can use when you’re stuck, spiraling or avoiding the obvious.
- Guides & Toolkits – short reads for one problem (avoidance, people-pleasing, doomscroll loops) plus printable, repeatable frameworks (decision prompts, loop-break checklists).
- Courses – structured materials you work with at your pace (step-by-step lessons, exercises, and checks that turn insight into action).
- Books – deeper work for understanding patterns and ending them (long-form clarity, real examples, and the full logic behind why you spiral back into things you thought you’re done with).
Not sure what to start with?
If you’re stuck on something in your life and want to understand why + take next steps, book a session.
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